Lisa Whelan

New MySpace Lawsuit Ignites More Questions: "Who is Responsible For Safety of Kids On-Line?"

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spot on.

children need to be protected both by society and parents from the dangers of online... but not just online. in my mind the same applies to questions of fast food advertising, road safety, education etc..

we all have a responsibility to provide children the safest environment possible so that they can play outdoors, go online and do what kids do without fear.

that said, if i had to decide on one group that ultimately has to take responsibility, and i believe we need to be clear where the buck ultimately stops, it is the parents. allowing them to abdicate their responsibility by suing myspace or expecting the health system to pay for illnesses related to obeseity is a dangerous road to go down.

i know it may sound harsh but without clear ultimate responsibilty everyone is responsible and therefore no one.

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I agree. Education is the only practical solution to the problem. Technical solutions like content filters and parental controls will never be successful for any length of time because technologies are constantly changing and both children and predators are constantly working to circumvent them.

Likewise, law enforcement is an ineffective solution, as it is generally better at punishing than preventing. Also, the need to keep up with constatly changing technologies can be a drain on budgets.

Changing technologies are in some ways fairly irrelevant to education, though. Parents need to be taught that there are risks in any online environment, just as there are risks in any real-world environment. And children need to be taught that the warnings they are given about strangers are doubly true online: a stranger online is like a stranger wearing a mask, and shouldn't be trusted.

...but we must not forget (or certainly i believe) that we ALL have a responsibility to do what we can to protect children (wherever they may be), whether as individuals, law-makers, consulants or shareholders of myspace.

my point is that we need to be clear where ultimate (not exclusive) responsibily sits. slight but important difference.

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The law already clarifies that parents are responsible for their children, including their safety and their activities. These parents are providing the computers and the internet services to these young teenagers and they most certainly can take them away from them or restrict their access. These teenagers are spending multitude of hours on the internet, unsupervised. Where are their parents? It is not my job to make sure other kids are safe - my job is to ensure my kids are safe.

There are 1000's upon 1000's of these girls' myspace sites that are full of indecent sexually provacative material, fitting actually to a prostitute soliciting. These kids are posting what many would call pornography. Innocent little children? Excuse me please. Many of the girls are lying about their age, falsely presenting themselves to be adults. I think that is called fraud. And their parents allow it all. Next we hear that they met some older guy (he gets labeled predator), given him their phone number, gone to meet him without their parents knowledge, and then had sex. Sometimes it is forced, but many of these cases are about consentual sex where laws of age of consent are broken. These are not innocent children, they are juvenile deliquents whose parents allow them to play in the biggest bar in the world with no rules while they are convienently elsewhere. So the kids are getting into trouble as a result. Well kids do that when they are not properly attended to. The internet has been around long enough - everyone knows the potentials of meeting a bad person. When this stuff occurs, those parents should be investigated by welfare and juvenile authorities. And those teenagers who are engaging in such activities should be investigated by juvenile police as well. Wouldn't that be a wake up call to all parents and teenagers?
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Non-Voxer, "Troy K" emailed socialmediablog@gmail.com with the following comment:
One thing that is also going on and I think will get much much worse with time. People taking someone's picture and pretending to be them. You can create a bad situation on many levels like that. My son is 13 and a neighbor kid put his picture on there with his name and zip code. He declared he was "gay and proud" and "horney as fuck#$". This can be devastating to a 13 year old, or anyone else for that matter. I am on day four of trying to get it removed. Imagine if someone puts a picture of your child in front a predator and lures him in. A whole new way of creating crime and it wouldn't be near as hard as one may think. We MUST come up with a system to handle this and MySpace has to respond to problems much fast than they do. Four days + is just ridiculous.

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